What I want to look and feel like in my wedding dress.

Things That People Tell You That Might Not Matter:

  • A lot of wedding dresses will not be in your size (that’s ok because everyone there is in the same predicament)
  • “That dress looks great for your body type!” Yeah, if I’m a 65 year old matron renewing my vows… take people’s feedback into consideration, but pick what YOU like.
  • “Wedding dresses should be white!” Eh. I think this is subjective… but my dress will probably be white. LOL.
  • “Bridal consultants are there to help you find the dress of your dreams!” Hmmph. Mine was super helpful, but there were at least two other coordinators that, in their urgency to help other brides almost elbowed me out of the way while I was modelling dresses for my friends.

This is what I probably looked like in my dress.

Things That People Don’t Tell You But Should:

  • Wear a strapless bra.
  • Wear spanx.
  • Be prepared to basically FLASH your bridal consultant, who will help you in and out of dresses
  • Be prepared that your bridal consultant will NOT care that you’re flashing her, because sadly she’s seen it like a dozen times already.
  • Changing in and out of dresses will make you sweaty and cranky.
  • David’s Bridal can be a little bit like a crazy, kinda like the DMV only with lots and LOTS of women.
  • Even though David’s Bridal is like a giant wedding dress farmer’s market, the prices are pretty good.
  • Boutique dress shopping can make you feel poor.
  • There are a lot more “big girl” brides than you’d think… yay ๐Ÿ™‚
  • Don’t even make having a “good hair day” a goal on the day you’re trying on dresses. Diving in and out of dresses will surely destroy that do.
  • Even though your hair is a mess, your deodorant is starting to wear off and it’s just occurred to you that you’re probably NOT the first person to try on this dress, wedding dress shopping can make you feel pretty and like, bridal and stuff. ๐Ÿ™‚

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